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Dancing with my star

February 24th, 2009, 8:23 am by davis

We went dancing Saturday night.

We do it all the time, or at least every year when the Girls Inc. Father Daughter Dance rolls around.

Hannah, my older daughter, invited me again, despite knowing my dancing skills hadn’t improved any over the past year, or since she first started taking me four years ago now.

Sorry, but I can’t dance.

Nevertheless, we always have a good time.

We enjoy watching the other kids dance, especially the little ones. Hannah likes to guess who’s going to win the dance contest for each grade.

She also always enjoys dancing with the other kids.

I always enjoy watching Hannah have a good time.

And we always have a good time dancing together, with Hannah laughing with me as I make a mess of the art of dancing.

The first time we went, about all I could do was spin her around and around and around. And around some more.

But this year brought a surprise. OK, it brought a shock.

After we danced our dance and we were walking off the floor, they announced the winning couple for that round.

“Hannah and Dan Davis,” the woman said.

“Another Hannah and Dan Davis,” I thought. “Who’d have known.”

As Hannah dragged me up front, another thought entered my mind: “Gee, no offense, but how bad were the other dads?”

But we did have a good time during our dance. We had kept moving, even me. We had laughed as I spun Hannah around, although she stopped me this yeaer before I again turned her into a twirling dervish ala our first Father Daughter Dance in 2005. And she had laughed with me as I tried to keep my hulking bulk moving with her petite frame.

Maybe having fun counted a lot with the judges.

If you’re a dad and you’ve never taken your girl to the Father Daughter Dance, you should pencil that into your dance card for next year. You’ll have a great time.

We always do.

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Racing winds and trumpeting elephants

February 11th, 2009, 9:00 am by davis

Sounds like it’s going to be a great day to fly a kite.

To the moon.

The National Weather Service has issued a high wind warning for Jackson County from 10 a.m. Wednesday through 1 p.m. Thursday.

Waiting for the alarm to go off this morning, I could already hear the winds arriving, racing past the house.

When I was kid growing up on Indianapolis’ southside, with the houses placed closely together, I always thought the wind blowing betwen our house and the Jones’ next door sounded like trumpeting circus elephants.

I always liked that sound.

Anyway, stay safe out in the wind, and keep an eye out for the those elephants, or at least tree limbs and power lines.

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No next year for Cubs fan

February 5th, 2009, 11:35 am by davis

Jack and Beulah Scott were among my first friends when I moved to Seymour nearly 25 years ago.

Their daughter Jill introduced us that first week on the job. She and I had worked together in the circulation department as we went to college at IUPUI. Jill apparently knew I’d been pretty lonely during my 10 years one year in Arkansas and wanted to make sure I knew someone here.

Jack and Beulah opened their Kessler Boulevard home, their hearts and their refrigerator to me, and I’ve always appreciated that.

They invited me to come over, walk in and help myself to the fridge, regardless of whether they were home.

As an overworked, underpaid and overly hungry young reporter, I took them up on their hospitality. You could always find something good to eat in Beulah’s refrigerator, and she made great strawberry pies.

They invited me to over on holidays and other family get-togethers, where Jack was often the cook. My recipe for sweet potatoes isa combination of my Mom’s and Jack’s.

We remained friends over the past 25 years, although we visited less often as my job demands changed, as I became involved in raising my own family and as we moved away for four years in June 2000.

Our daughters enjoyed their Halloween night visits to the Scotts. Beulah always had treat bags for them, usually including a toothbrush, and Jack was scary, to them, by just being Jack.

And of course, as my older daughter always said, “He has a such a big cat.”

Jack died this week, after a lengthy illness. He suffered for years with pulmonary fibrosis, the same disease that took the life of his brother, Donald, a former Seymour police chief and city councilman.

Both men — natives of Freetown — served their communities.

Jack umpired youth sports for years, had been active with the Jackson County Genealogical Society and maintained for a while a museum at the former Washington School on Seymour’s south side. He loved local history and enjoyed helping others learn about their family histories.

Jack also was a huge fan of his beloved, bemoaned and often belittled Chicago Cubs.

Soon after I moved to town, he installed a satellite dish so he could better follow the Northsiders.

This was not one of those little dishes that look like bird feeders.

It was huge.

I suspected the Reagan administration planned using it as part of its proposed Star Wars missile defense initative.

When Jack changed channels, satellite positionings or whatever it was, you couldn’t hear the TV, or anthing else in the neighborhood. The motor powering the dish would drown out any nearby noise as it whirred the dish to a new angle.

But it did bring in the Cubs. And we’d watch every night. Occasionally, he’d even tune in the Cardinals broadcasts for me. As long as they were playing the Cubs, of course.

Everyone should be a Cubs fan, he thought, if not demanded.

It’s a shame the Cubbies collapsed again this past season. Knowing that Jack was becoming more ill, I was hoping they could win a World Series for him. While there’s always next year for the Cubs, there would not be one for him.

Maybe somewhere today Jack is talking with Hack Wilson, Don Cardwell or Harry Caray. If so, I imagine he’s offering tips on how to hit a little better, how to pitch a more effective knuckler or how to broadcast a livelier ballgame.

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The ‘S’ word triggers action

January 12th, 2009, 7:39 pm by davis

Our younger daughter stayed home from school today after a bout with a stomach illness.

She called this afternoon asking whether I could bring home a box of push-ups, those frozen treats that have sherbet molded around a stick and encased in a cardboard tube. My favorite is orange.

I said I could, so I stopped at a grocery on the way home for supper and picked up a box of Scooby Doo push-ups, which come in a variety of flavors. Still, the best is orange.

I was amazed at the amount of activity in the store.

Most of the registers were open. Lines were a few people deep.

“It looks like Saturday in here,” I said to the wearied cashier.

Someone, she said, had mentioned the “S” word, and I don’t think she meant the three-letter “S” word.

No, she meant “snow.”

“But we’re only expected to get an inch or two,” I said.

It doesn’t matter, she responded.

People, she said, seem to go crazy at the mere mention of snow being in the forecast.

The forecast have for Tuesday’s edition of The Tribune from the National Weather Service calls for Jackson County to receive 1 to 2 inches of snow overnight, with falling temperatures coming tonight and throughout much of the week.

I don’t quite understand the dash for milk and bread, but I suppose if we wake up to a foot of snow in the morning and no way to get to the grocery, those folks will have the last laugh as they have milk with their breakfast, including toast, and I chug down a glass of water with mine soda crackers.

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Back from vacation with a backache

January 5th, 2009, 4:40 pm by davis

Sorry for the lack of recent postings, but I’ve been on vacation around the holidays.

I enjoyed most of my two weeks off, spent with family here at home, with in-laws visiting from Texas and with my siblings and their children (and in some cases their grandchildren).

That said, however, I did end up spending part of the second week nursing muscle spasms in my lower back. Apparently, I spent too much time on the floor playing with the kids’ new toys. Apparently, I really am getting older.

Anyway, I hope all of you had a wonderful Christmas and a safe and happy start to the new year.

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Leg lamp draws a request

December 8th, 2008, 10:22 pm by davis

My blog last week about “A Christmas Story” and the mention of the leg lamp drew a number of phone calls, e-mails and three online responses.

Steve Langlais of Sixth Street in Seymour posted a repsonse of mock shock that his leg lamp wasn’t the only one in town.

He asked for others to respond with locations of where there might be others.

I know of two others. Scott Davis (no relation) has one in the second-floor window of his home on North Walnut Street and another Louise Court, both in Seymour.

Our TribTown poll on favorite Christmas movies has drawn a number of responses, more than 370 as of this evening. “A Christmas Story” and “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation” have been strong leaders in the voting, each holding steady in the 23 to 25 percent range

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‘As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly’

November 26th, 2008, 4:16 am by davis

What will you give thanks for today?

Your family?

Your friends?

Your health?

Your church?

Your job?

Our freedoms as Americans?

Those are among the things for which I’m thankful and that I’ll keep in mind today.
I’m also thankful for the laughter that my family and I share.

Sure, we have our moments that aren’t always that harmonious, but those don’t last. The good times — those times that almost always include a good laugh or two — are the ones that last, that stick in our memories and that are talked about for many years afterward.

I love hearing my kids and wife laugh, and I enjoy laughing with them, especially when they’re laughing at me.

Laughter’s a great thing.

It helps us share our senses of humor. It helps us say “I love you.” It helps us smile. It helps us share our joy and ease our fears.

And there’s more than our own anecdotal evidence that laughter is good for us.

A recent University of Maryland study contends the old saying about laughter being the best medicine is true. It reports that the blood pressure of those studied dropped while watching comedies. So don’t feel as though you’re wasting time today if you log onto the “WKRP” Thanksgiving episode where Art Carlson utters those famous, belly-shaking words, “As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly.” What a hoot.

I’m thankful my family and I will share a heaping helping of laughter just as we’ll share a hearty holiday meal when we gather this afternoon.

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How is downturn affecting you this shopping season?

November 24th, 2008, 11:17 am by davis

How will the economic downturn affect your holiday shopping plans?

Will you spend less? Will you give of yourself — such as your time or handmade items — in order to save money?

Reporter Jill Treadway’s story in Monday’s issue of The Tribune and online at TribTown.com reports several area retailers saying they expect to still have a strong shopping season, although some are concerned that sales may be down.

Some common themes, however, were expectations that shoppers are wanting their best deals ahead of Christmas Day and that many retailers plan to give them that Christmas wish.

Another common expectation is that we’ll shop closer to home because of gas prices, despite that the cost of a gallon of gas is actually the cheapest its been in many months, if not more than year, or two.

I’m a little dubious that we’ll continue to conserve energy now that it’s dropped in price, but I hope we do. Our pocketbooks would be better for it, as would efforts to reduce the dependency on foreign oil.

I also hope that staying closer to home to do our Christmas shopping will benefit our local Mom-and-Pop retailers. They’re an important part of our community.

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What do you say to those in mourning?

November 18th, 2008, 2:36 pm by davis

I drove to Indianapolis the other day for the funeral of a childhood friend’s father.

Several things went through my mind on the trip to Garfield Christian Church in my old neighborhood and the drive home later that afternoon.

It seems as though I’ve been spending much more time in funeral homes in recent months, perhaps a sign that I’m getting older just as the parents of many of my friends are getting older still.

After hearing stories about how some of my friends have watched their mothers and fathers suffer, some for many months if not years, I think I’m finding some appreciation for the quick way in which first Pop and later Mom died. Quickly and with no long-term illness.

A little appreciation, but not much.

I still miss them.

I can’t imagine anyone enjoying going to funeral homes, although I had an aunt and a couple of distant cousins of Pop who seemed to be rather professional at it.

While much of my discomfort comes from missing my parents and being reminded of that every time I go inside a funeral home, I do think it serves a purpose for those mourning their loved ones, as long as I can keep my emotions about my own losses in check.

I hardly think mourners need me blubbering at them.

Something I’m unsure of is how to deal with those family members I don’t know. Do they really care to hear from me or have someone explain to them who I am? I often doubt that and generally try to visit with the person I know.

But sometimes that can be awkward, too, and what if the sibling you step around doesn’t know anyone there and they get stepped around by nearly everyone? Maybe I just think too much on a long drive home.

What do you do in those cases? I’d like to hear.

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An early Thanksgiving

November 16th, 2008, 3:10 pm by davis

I love Thanksgiving.

There are fewer expectations. There’s less concern about the weather for those of us who travel. And there are so many great foods.

My siblings and I and our families celebrated Thanksgiving early.

We traveled Saturday to our older sister’s home in Lebanon, in Boone County north of Indianapolis, with our contributions to the meal.

There was turkey and pork roast. Cheesy potatoes. Dressing, with oysters and without, of course. Layered salad topped with deviled eggs. Broccoli casserole. Noodles. Sweet potatoes (our contribution). My sister-in-law’s wonderful homemade bread. And other things.

And you can’t forget the pies. Pecan. Apple. Rhubarb. And pumpkin, of course. Did I mention pecan? My sister rivals Mom’s crust, and her pecan pies are just something to save room for.

OK, OK.

I do have expectations for pecan pie, gravy and turkey and other things.

But generally, Thanksgiving is pretty carefree compared to Christmas, although of course I love Christmas for those things that aren’t wrapped up, so to speak, in presents and wants and desires.

What about you? Do you think Thanksgiving is more of a simple pleasure? Do you find Thanksgiving is easier to enjoy?

What are your Thanksgiving traditions?

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